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Love and Relationship ➤ July 18, 2023

When Love Isn’t Reciprocated: Embracing Self-Love and Acceptance Instead

We’ve all been there—facing the harsh reality that the person we adore doesn’t feel the same way. It’s tough, no doubt about it. A few years ago, I was so smitten by a guy for...

Life Lessons ➤ October 15, 2019

Ditching Outdated Dating Trends: From “Sex and the City” to “Felicity”

From the glitzy streets of Manhattan in “Sex and the City” to the cozy college town of “Felicity,” the world of television has provided us with countless portrayals of love, romance, and the ups and...

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Parenting ➤ September 16, 2024

Forgiving Ourselves as Parents and Healing Our Inner Child: A Reflection on Cam Newton’s Episode with Iyanla Vanzant

Iyanla Vanzant's conversation with Cam Newton highlights the complexities of parenting, inner healing, and self-forgiveness. She candidly admits being a "horrible mother but a great father," reflecting on her emotional struggles and the dual roles parents often juggle. The episode emphasizes the importance of self-compassion and healing, impacting both parents and children.

Love and Relationship ➤ September 15, 2024

Masculine and Feminine Energy in Relationships and Dating: Insights from Object Relations and the Whoreible Decisions Episode with Anwar

The rise of terms like "masculine energy" and "feminine energy" has ignited discussions about their impact on relationships and personal identity. These energies, often developed through early caregiver relationships, influence attraction and compatibility. Object relations theory helps explain these dynamics, revealing how balance and understanding of these energies can lead to healthier and more fulfilling relationships.

Life Lessons ➤ July 7, 2024

The Power of “I Just Don’t Want That for Myself Anymore”

The post reflects on the powerful realization encapsulated in the phrase, "I just don't want that for myself anymore." It emphasizes the significance of personal choice and self-awareness, advocating for trust in one's intuition without needing external justification. Embracing this mindset fosters authenticity, freedom, and personal growth against societal expectations.