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Unmasking Impostor Syndrome: The Hidden Link to Internalized Racism
Life Lessons ➤ November 23, 2024

Unmasking Impostor Syndrome: The Hidden Link to Internalized Racism

The author explores their personal struggle with impostor syndrome, revealing its connection to internalized racism. Despite achievements, feelings of inadequacy stemmed from societal biases. A pivotal moment in therapy prompted the realization that systemic oppression informs self-perception. Acknowledging this link led to strategies for healing and empowerment, emphasizing community support.

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The Power of “I Just Don’t Want That for Myself Anymore”
Life Lessons ➤ July 7, 2024

The Power of “I Just Don’t Want That for Myself Anymore”

The post reflects on the powerful realization encapsulated in the phrase, "I just don't want that for myself anymore." It emphasizes the significance of personal choice and self-awareness, advocating for trust in one's intuition without needing external justification. Embracing this mindset fosters authenticity, freedom, and personal growth against societal expectations.

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Vulnerability and Growth from a Therapist in Therapy
Life Lessons ➤ July 4, 2024

Vulnerability and Growth from a Therapist in Therapy

A therapist shares their experience of becoming a therapy client, emphasizing the humbling and enlightening journey of vulnerability, self-discovery, and healing. They highlight how this role reversal deepens their empathy and understanding, enabling them to better support their clients while illustrating the transformative power and courage required to seek help.

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Unconventional Journey: Living Life Backwards
Life Lessons ➤ May 16, 2024

Unconventional Journey: Living Life Backwards

The writer reflects on a life marked by unconventional choices and experiences, starting from being born breached. Despite early struggles and feeling behind peers, the journey taught them resilience, adaptability, and the importance of defining success on personal terms. They encourage embracing one's unique path and finding joy in unexpected outcomes.

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Parenthood Alone: Perseverance and Self Awareness
Life Lessons ➤ April 28, 2024

Parenthood Alone: Perseverance and Self Awareness

Parenthood as a solo endeavor can be unexpected, highlighting the need for self-reliance, awareness of relationship red flags, and building a supportive network. Single parents grow in resilience and independence, demonstrating exceptional strength while ensuring the best for their children. These experiences offer lessons in perseverance and self-awareness for all.

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Release: Moving On From a Relationship Past Its Expiration Date
Life Lessons ➤ April 21, 2024

Release: Moving On From a Relationship Past Its Expiration Date

Enduring a breakup requires acknowledging emotions and accepting the end of the relationship. It's crucial to release false hope and establish boundaries to protect emotional health. Prioritizing personal happiness and growth is key, as is seeking support from loved ones or a therapist. Moving on takes patience and self-compassion, offering a chance for growth and new beginnings. Letting go is a necessary step towards a happier future.

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Addicted to the Emotional Chaos: Awareness and Breaking the Cycle
Interpersonal Trauma ➤ March 29, 2024

Addicted to the Emotional Chaos: Awareness and Breaking the Cycle

Our emotions can create a cycle of emotional chaos rooted in unresolved issues and unconscious patterns. This often familiar turmoil affects our well-being and relationships. To break free, we need conscious awareness, therapy, mindfulness, and supportive environments. Cultivating resilience lets us confront adversity and transmute chaos into personal growth, leading toward inner peace.

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Navigating Romantic Relationships After Childhood Trauma: How to Identify the Type of Partner You Need
Life Lessons ➤ March 25, 2024

Navigating Romantic Relationships After Childhood Trauma: How to Identify the Type of Partner You Need

Navigating relationships is challenging for those shaped by childhood trauma, often seeking familiar dynamics. Essential steps include self-understanding and identifying one’s core values, goals, and relationship non-negotiables. Prioritize qualities such as honesty and emotional intelligence, reflect on past patterns, seek shared values, and trust instincts when choosing a compatible partner for long-term happiness.

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Scarcity Mindset: How It Impacts Weight Loss and Overcoming Childhood Habits
Food ➤ February 18, 2024

Scarcity Mindset: How It Impacts Weight Loss and Overcoming Childhood Habits

In the journey towards weight loss and healthy living, our mindset plays a pivotal role. For many of us, our relationship with food is deeply rooted in childhood experiences and learned behaviors – and for...

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Why Not Forgiving Can Be Liberating: A Perspective on Amber Rose’s Podcast Clip
Life Lessons ➤ February 7, 2024

Why Not Forgiving Can Be Liberating: A Perspective on Amber Rose’s Podcast Clip

By now, many of us have seen the viral clip from Amber Rose’s podcast where she boldly declares, “I don’t forgive.” Her words sparked a wave of debate and controversy, with some applauding her honesty...

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Unmasking Impostor Syndrome: The Hidden Link to Internalized Racism
Life Lessons ➤ November 23, 2024

Unmasking Impostor Syndrome: The Hidden Link to Internalized Racism

The author explores their personal struggle with impostor syndrome, revealing its connection to internalized racism. Despite achievements, feelings of inadequacy stemmed from societal biases. A pivotal moment in therapy prompted the realization that systemic oppression informs self-perception. Acknowledging this link led to strategies for healing and empowerment, emphasizing community support.

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Forgiving Ourselves as Parents and Healing Our Inner Child: A Reflection on Cam Newton’s  Episode with Iyanla Vanzant
Parenting ➤ September 16, 2024

Forgiving Ourselves as Parents and Healing Our Inner Child: A Reflection on Cam Newton’s Episode with Iyanla Vanzant

Iyanla Vanzant's conversation with Cam Newton highlights the complexities of parenting, inner healing, and self-forgiveness. She candidly admits being a "horrible mother but a great father," reflecting on her emotional struggles and the dual roles parents often juggle. The episode emphasizes the importance of self-compassion and healing, impacting both parents and children.

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Masculine and Feminine Energy in Relationships and Dating: Insights from Object Relations and the Whoreible Decisions Episode with Anwar
Love and Relationship ➤ September 15, 2024

Masculine and Feminine Energy in Relationships and Dating: Insights from Object Relations and the Whoreible Decisions Episode with Anwar

The rise of terms like "masculine energy" and "feminine energy" has ignited discussions about their impact on relationships and personal identity. These energies, often developed through early caregiver relationships, influence attraction and compatibility. Object relations theory helps explain these dynamics, revealing how balance and understanding of these energies can lead to healthier and more fulfilling relationships.

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